Seduce Your Girlfriend or Wife - for starters

If you are like most guys you are probably at a loss for what you can do to seduce your girlfriend or wife. It's ok. It's not your fault. Most women aren't very forthcoming in telling guys what turns them on and they expect you to figure it out or know through mental telepathy. She probably thinks that if you really cared you would just know what turns her on. Unfortunately, the same things that turn a guy on simply don't work for women.

Although books have been written on the subject I want to share with you a little bit about what you can do today to improve your relationship and see a significant change in your girlfriend or wife when it comes to her degree of friskiness. This may seem simple but when you make this change you will find that your wife or girlfriend actually becomes happier and more open to your advances than she might be if you continued doing what you've been doing.

Touching! Touching your wife or girlfriend on a regular basis will make a profound impact on how close she feels to you and how open she is to your advances. Touching is actually a basic form of seduction that can be used on any woman to create a connection and spawn intimacy.

Touching a woman on the hand, arm or back is almost a subliminal way to connect with her on a subconscious level and create the connection that women crave. If you think back to when you were dating you will remember that holding hands was kind of the first step that eventually led to other things in your relationship. Before you ever got that first kiss there is a very good chance that you touched her and she responded and felt closer to you.

Now that you have been together for a while there is a very good chance that touching your wife or girlfriend on a regular basis has gone right out the window. You are probably more interested in getting right to the main event and you probably wonder why she's not as interested anymore and you're wondering how you can seduce her and get back to all the fun that the two of you used to have. Making a conscious effort to touch her more often is your first step in recreating that intimacy and seducing your wife or girlfriend. You will be giving her one of the things that she wants and in return you will find that she is more open to giving you the intimacy that you want.

Make a conscious effort to touch her face when you kiss her hello or goodbye. Maybe grab her hand when you're driving or walking through the mall. Place your hand on the small of her back as you hold a door open for her or as you pass her in the house. Sit close to her on the couch when you're watching tv and put your arm around her. Be creative but be consistent and you will find that she not only notices but becomes more amorous towards you and rather quickly.

One thing to look out for though is that sometimes a woman might not want to be touched. I'm not talking about in a work environment where touching a coworker can get you written up for harassment. This should go without saying. But keep an eye out for nonverbal cues that a woman doesn't want to be touched such as if she pulls her hand away when you go to hold it or if she covers herself up with a blanket when you're trying to cuddle with her. Sometimes a woman just isn't in the mood or there could be underlying issues that need to be resolved before intimacy and seduction are welcome.

Overall though, you should find that your wife or girlfriend will eat up this form of seduction and you will probably notice a change in her almost immediately. Take advantage of any opportunity that presents itself and touch your wife or girlfriend and see for yourself if this form of simple seduction can bring the friskiness back into your relationship.